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Our goal shouldn’t be to encourage girls to fit in, but rather how to weather the storm when they find themselves ousted. But science has shown that trying to fit in costs you physically and emotionally. You feel completely and utterly alone slumped in a corner in the cafeteria – hoping that no one sees you sitting by yourself because that would be even more humiliating.īut here’s the thing, when girls don’t fit in – they’re made fun of in school. They spread rumors so no one will hang out with you either. As you probably know, its not the “I’ll beat you up in the playground after school.” but rather they bully through exclusion. Girls have a very covert way of bullying. Read: How to Help Your Child with Self Esteem How to Spot Girl Drama I wanted her to know how to confront problems and the typical, stupid ways that people would react. I didn’t want her to think it was her fault that other people were mean to her. When my daughter entered sixth grade this year, I was terrified. Other people will ALWAYS find something to mock because it’s not about you! Their taunting is all about them and their insecurities. It didn’t matter what you said, how you dressed, what grades you got. That people would make fun of you regardless. When I had kids and got older, I realized how completely ridiculous it all was. I’ve shared my middle school bullying story here before. Since I didn’t fit in, invisibility was my next best option. slouched in class – always glancing over my shoulder to see if anyone noticed me.stood quietly in the locker room when changing into my white shirt and black shorts for PE, hoping that no one would recognize.I wanted to be accepted in middle school, but I wasn’t.
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